Here are some comparison shots.
this is one of me from just after divorce #1, 1991
This is after the birth of my second cub, 1993 (same skirt!)
This is 1999, just prior to my second divorce:
This is 2002ish, after the third divorce:
2003 before the fourth marriage.

and
and that's all the "sexified" pics I have.
on a good note, I've lost 15 pounds in 4 months so far, just doing low carb. Maybe we'll get some more of these when I hit my goal, eh?