[lumberjim]

toad,

Don;t thin of this as being rejected, or being left.....never say to her "you left me"

and don't try to change to make her stay!....just let her get out of the way.....she's doing you a favor, really....the next 1.567 years will suck, but you'll be more careful this time and get a girl that is a little more zesty for you.

here's how i see you two:

if you two weren't clicking for eleven years, then you knew it too, but accepted it. You can't really blame her for doing something about it. she needs to respect you enough to not hang the other guy in your face, and you should try not to be resentful and petty.

But get her out of there pronto....and start dating immediatley.....just do not fall in love for at least the above mentioned time period of 1.567 years. after that, fire at will.

chin up!.....back straight!!! .......suck in that gut!!!!!

( this shit your going through is the real reason you've been losing weight.....subconsciously you knew you'd be on the prowl again soon.....)


Pass the viagra!