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Big Sarge · 05-26-2009, 07:43 AM

I thought it was time to give you an update on the turmoil in my life. In the past year, I have been diagnosed with Lupus and Sarcoma. My ex cleaned out my bank account and ran away with another man. Plus, she took my baby to another state and I have only seen her once in 7 mos.

Due to the financial situation, I signed a waiver and will deploy to Iraq in less than 3 weeks. When I told everyone I was in MS, I was at the MOB Center training. The military only gave me 50% disability and I have to do something to get back on my feet.

My ex got married on Saturday. She sent me a wedding photo and a message saying my daughter doesn't remember me and thinks her new husband is her daddy.

When I asked for help in seeing some photos of my daughter that were posted online, I felt like many of you thought I was stalking. I only wanted to see my baby. Now it will be another year before I can see my child. Some of you my think it is selfish for me to deploy, but it was that or be destitute. Plus, the legal fees I have incurred in my fight for my daughter have been staggering.

I hope this clears the air and maybe some of you will understand I meant no harm when I tried to get help with the photos

05-26-2009, 07:43 AM	#1
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	Big Sarge Update (May) I thought it was time to give you an update on the turmoil in my life. In the past year, I have been diagnosed with Lupus and Sarcoma. My ex cleaned out my bank account and ran away with another man. Plus, she took my baby to another state and I have only seen her once in 7 mos. Due to the financial situation, I signed a waiver and will deploy to Iraq in less than 3 weeks. When I told everyone I was in MS, I was at the MOB Center training. The military only gave me 50% disability and I have to do something to get back on my feet. My ex got married on Saturday. She sent me a wedding photo and a message saying my daughter doesn't remember me and thinks her new husband is her daddy. When I asked for help in seeing some photos of my daughter that were posted online, I felt like many of you thought I was stalking. I only wanted to see my baby. Now it will be another year before I can see my child. Some of you my think it is selfish for me to deploy, but it was that or be destitute. Plus, the legal fees I have incurred in my fight for my daughter have been staggering. I hope this clears the air and maybe some of you will understand I meant no harm when I tried to get help with the photos __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.