Damn all you folks over think every thing !!!!!!!!!
I was raised by my mother , big sis , my moms best friend and her three daughters . My mom was the queen of batting her eye lashes and getting what she wanted from ANYBODY !!! I relate equaly well with men and ladys because i have figured out a simple fact . Men are like dogs , you feed us , give us some place warm to sleep , ocationaly rub our bellys , and let us run around with our friends , and we are happy puppys . Ladys are like cats , they will sweet talk you , then claw you , an NO BODY can figuer them out !!!!!!!
Just my humble opinion