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Originally Posted by Shawnee123
No, I think everyone was very willing to listen to your beef, maybe offer some advice, some ideas. The first inkling that someone says something, and not just in this thread, that you disagree with you go off, tell them they're stupid and they just don't understand your particular dilemma, and then boo-dee-hoo that the Cellar sucks.
How much fucking support do you want? You want we should come over and smack her?
I completely understood what you were talking about. However, I was blinded by your cute little smackdown of UT, who was only offering suggestions.
If you don't want opinions about your assorted dilemmas, I suggest you write them on a little pieces of paper instead, you know, to get it out, then burn them. Leave well-meaning people, who apparently suck if they don't bow to your every word, out of it.
kthxbai
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Plenty of people posted opinions, and one person got insulting. I do respond negatively to insulting opinions, including "well if it hurts, just stop" (I assume you're referring to Dana's reply about my divorce in that other thread... yeah, that was dumb advice, pardon me for pointing it out).
Almost everyone who replied in this thread was amusing, supportive, or gently teasing... in other words, perfectly nice. Only you and Undertoad decided to be the emissaries that undermined the "Cellar support" you like to tout so much.
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Originally Posted by Undertoad
This is actually a control issue. If she was a TV, you'd leave her on for company, because then you'd be in control: you'd have an off switch.
Thus, if you choose to, you can control your need to control, and there will be no more issue.
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Originally Posted by Undertoad
Yes, but you SET your OWN boundaries. And when you live with someone else, you are bound to step on theirs and they are bound to step on yours. It's pretty inevitable.
Do you think you don't step on hers? I'll wager you have some really annoying habits.
We all do.
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What he posted was not advice, Shawnee, it was an insult toward my needs and boundaries.
And you stepped right in line behind him when I called him on it.