[classicman]

Although this appears to be an estrogen-fest.... I cut a whole bunch of people outta my life at one point. actually everyone I thought was my friend. With them went every connection to all the things I didn't want in my life any longer. I went through a lot of crap at the time and it was one of the hardest things I'd ever done. That was about 20 years ago.
In the last five years or so, I've run into a couple of them. They haven't progressed at all. It like they are trapped in time. All they are doing is getting older. Its a shame really. I am free and I feel great about that although I am sad for them. at times I am angry too, some had such great potential and its just been wasted.