SG, I seriously never thought I'd ever find someone to love after almost 6 years of being single, but it took me that long to really honestly get myself anywhere near where I needed to be to let love come into my life again. Then I met Dazza when I wasn't even looking for love and he's helped me scrape off the last of the shit and slime from the past to the point where I can really feel that sense of complete happiness with him, even when he's annoying the shit out of me (if that makes any sense).
I just think that when you start to think you might want to bring love into your life, you're probably almost there, particularly if you're logical about your thought processes at the same time.
Bruce, thanks for the OP. I thought it was beautiful in a sad way. I guess we all sometimes have things that we just never realized until it was just too late. I think it's part of the human condition.
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