I don't understand why someone who can beat alcohol and cancer and whatever other adversity she's had to overcome in her life would run away from a conflict with one or two
known assholes. I would have thought she'd stand and fight....I am surprised and vaguely disappointed that these people were not called out and asked to change. It's kind of like watching your team give up during a playoff game. I will miss Bri. She's one of the good guys. I know I can still talk to her, but i enjoy her zany cellar style and fearless honesty. She's unique. She's worth 20 of the cocks that ruined this thing for her.
This place has a certain utility for some of us. By that I mean, we all get something out of sharing our stories and feelings and rants. We may even NEED the interaction because we do not or cannot get it in our real lives, for whatever reason. Maybe it's just the LEVEL of interaction we get here that we need. I'm sad for Claudette that she won't get it here anymore. I hope she gets it somewhere. (I hope she gets it in the dupa with no lube, at the moment) Anyway.... when you get so involved in hating on one or two other people that you no longer like the whole place, or maybe you dont like the way YOU'VE become, I guess you have to leave.
To the people that made her so mad that she did this I could offer a big 'fuck you', but they are really not to blame. Assholes act like assholes every day. they spew shit and smell bad. that's what they do. She chose her course of action, and made the decision to leave us all behind. She did. Not them. I don't think it was even
their intent, for her to leave. Yes, it sucks that people are mean or aggravating. Yes, it sucks that she's gone and they're still here. Yes, we'll miss her.
But Bri, UR DOING IT WRONG
I got this little tidbit in a PM today from someone I consider wise:
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Sometimes I say, if the Cellar isn't what you think it should be, your best bet is to post more! That makes it more like what you want it to be.
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Maybe if we all close our eyes and wish really hard, Brianna will come back....like when tinkerbell dies in peter pan.