I would be grateful if I were forgiven by the people I hurt.
But I also accept that sometimes the hurt is out of proportion to the action. I see that from both sides.
I have had someone claiming near-fatal hurt for something that didn't warrant it. I have also suffered for years over a hurt that was not intended and was possibly prolonged by my own sense of drama (although I believed in the honesty of physically felt emotions at the time).
You know I don't believe in God. But I also don't believe in fate, true love, luck etc. If you said my life was therefore barren I'sd agree. Apart from the therefore part. If I was beautiful, it would differ. And that makes a big difference in your belief systems. Trust me.
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