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Originally Posted by limey
Doesn't that "didn't want to be a bother" thing SUCK??
Please remember folks - your friends and family want to know, want to help, want to show they care.
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As someone who has perpetual "didn't want to be a bother" syndrome, I can tell you that it's more about avoiding the attention in the first place. If you show your care in more understated ways rather than talking about it, simply
do the helpful thing rather than ask "What can I do?," then you are more likely to be let in the loop. Just sayin'.