[monster]

Treas, I know we don't know each other, but please, slow down.

I know long distance romances and internet relationships can and do work, but they take a lot of work and -when international- money. it costs a lot of money to get to the USA even on a fiance visa, and you have to prove that you can support him. Have you looked into the whole visa thing?

You're not even totally out of the abusive relationship that caused you to have PTSD, you have a baby girl and you're sleeping with your housemate. Mick is older than you and has two older daughters he's desperately seeking. If he finds them, will he really be happy to up sticks and leave them on the other side of the world?

Did you meet Mick in person or on the internet?

I know I'm raining on your parade, but please believe me I mean no malice at all, I just want to make sure you're aware of how rough the road ahead is going to be, even if Mick IS "The One".

Good luck with it all and I hope he tracks down his girls. Are there Government programs/fathers' groups that can help?