congratulations, pastrami.
hey, i obviously dont know anything about your relationship with your parents or grandparents, but ive been thinking about it, and i think that having your parents be responsible for the grandparents invitation might be something you grow to regret later. based only on what i know from this thread, it sounds like your parents are being remarkably childish and selfish. it is your time, and you have a right to invite whomever you like.
i guess all im saying is that if it were me, i would send the invitations to my grandparents myself. then, tell my parents i did so, and then let them decide whether they want to miss out on my marriage or grow up and be a part of it.
again, i dont really know. a lot of that is speculation based on my familys relationships.
~james
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