OK, update on the others......I scrapped them all, coz of horse dude and look, things might still work out there....but I am royally pissed at him at the moment and it will take a lot of arse kissing on his behalf.
An Italian married dude, who is a very good customer of mine and is doing some renovations at my house......he's gorgeous and is always wanting to hook up.
meh, i'm a bit over everything at the moment....wont hurt to sit on it for a while