We are far from rich, and always have put our family relationships above all else.
To the point that I gave up a good paying job in the steel mill for the least paying job there as a janitor while our boys were growing up so that I could get off of the swing shift and work steady daylights to be home in the evenings as a family. (runon sentence)

After the boys grew up I went back to the swing shift jobs for money we really needed for a while.
But it was so totally worth those years of being a "sanitary engineer".
Now I have a decent paying job and steady daylights. WOOT!