[classicman]

And I have no doubt that you will! The next argument will be that they are handicapped by playing more kids and each child having less time with the ball. Hence, you kids will gain more experience faster by getting more playing time. (been here done this) You will be better than they are no matter what happens because you care more about your kids and they more about winning.
Just do your thing dude! In 3,5 or 10 years all your kids will remember "cool coach lookout" The best one they ever had! All the other coaches will still be bitchin and tryin to get their kids onto a stacked team to fulfill their own obvious inadequacies.