[Elspode]

Bri, most of what I've read from everyone so far distills down to this: the girl doesn't have a problem with *you*, she has a problem with *herself*. However, since she's at an age where *nothing* could possibly be wrong with her, it must be you.

I'm sure you aren't the only one on her shit list. Probably has few friends who will put up with her, and that's another reason she has to hate you.

I'd tell you to pity her, but then again, I'm not sure you should even put that much energy into it. Just try some visualization. Close your eyes, take several slow, deep breaths, and then begin to visualize her weighing 200 lbs more than she does now, sitting on the broken down, rotting wooden deck of her rusty trailer home, with six snotty children crawling in the dust at her feet as her toothless husband is swinging back his fist for yet another blow to her rancid mouth out of which he's just knocked the Marlboro.

She's creating her own future by behaving in this way...you just have to visualize it.