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			"As long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might."  Marian Anderson
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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				"The pride system tends to intensify the self-hate against which it is supposed to be a defense, since any failure to live up to one's tyrannical shoulds or of the world to honor one's claims leads to feelings of worthlessness."  Bernard J. Paris, Ph.D.
			 
		
		
		
		
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