I agree...you're still young Grace...there's a lot of life out there. You're not allowed to be so angry until you're at least 21.
Could part of the issue be that you live in Boise?
But I also agree with the initial post to a point. I think that can be easily said for teenagers, who tend to be more esteem-centered. I think that fades away as you get older...at least for most people. Unfortunately, some people never get past the esteem issues.