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Anyway Spectacle:

Don't try to pigeon-hole your feelings - you can't help what you feel and what you don't. I would suggest your feelings are appropriate to your relationship anyway.

Last year one of ladies who worked in my local newsagent committed suicide. I went in there a couple of times a week and exchanged the usual pleasantries with her. When told she had committed suicide, first I had to think hard to remember her (two ladies with the same hair colour doing the same job confuse me). And then I was mildly interested, shocking the friend who told me, who thought I'd be upset.

There's enough genuine sadness in people's lies without worrying about borrowing some.