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Originally Posted by DanaC
Lot of adults simply don't have access to that kind of casual meeting scenario. This is particularly the case in big cities. Think about it: unless you are out with some friends, what do you look like if you go to a bar alone? People go out in pairs and groups, to be single and out and about alone is simply not societally acceptable in many places, and even where it is it is a dangerous thing to do, particularly if you're a woman. The reason speed dating, and net dating etc is such a big thing is because there are ever growing numbers of single adults who simply don't have the opportunity to meet other single adults unless it's in a work setting.
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It is so true. And if you end up working in a same gender environment (and that's not your preference) you will dream about your school and college days in a rose-tinted haze, believe me.
I am coming round to the idea that we all have our best years ahead of us, but you more than most. You haven't found your peer group in high school?
Hello college! In fact the only problem will be leaving with the same sense of uniqueness and put-upon genius you have now.
Cheer up, one way or another things will work out even if you do nothing but wait.