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I don't want you to think I was lecturing you. If you didn't mean me I eat a huge slice of humble pie & please ignore the following text.

It may not have come across well, but honestly I was trying to slip some personal advice to someone whose posts I enjoy. There have been some issues in the Cellar recently, but they have been almost exclusively between established Dwellars. I can't remember what has happened since you joined (a year ago) but we have had some very confrontational newbies and also some slow burning issues.

Oh I don't know why I'm typing this... I can't explain it intelligently but I adored Shawnee and she's gone. She was a support, a comfort and made me laugh. Often in posts, sometimes in PMs. She had her own issues with other Dwellars but never tried to get me "on board".

I like you. And I worry that if I'd spoken more to Shawnee on the board and less on PM she'd still be here & making many people laugh.