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I don't visit grave sites. My uncle (still miss him very much), my grandparents, and friends live on my memory and I don't think visiting the grave site would make my memories any better. I have thought of this as I have almost lost my wife a couple of times. She really doesn't care what I do with her body, but I don't know what I would. I don't think I would visit the grave site, but she is my wife, and the sense of loss there would be much, much greater.
Like some others have stated, the grave is for the living. The dead don't really have an opinion.
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