I leave teeny tiny notes for the deceased....wherever I can safely hide them....in lettering so tiny, and on a scrap of paper so tiny and folded- no one would ever discover. And flowers. Yes, I leave messages! But that's just one grave.....
I guess I still try to keep in mind what they would like within the realm of the very few possibilties.
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Show me a sane man, and I will cure him for you.- Carl Jung
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