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Originally Posted by Hime
such as asking for naked pictures,
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Oh my lord. My fiance (is it fiancee for a woman?) agreed to send some nudie pics to a male friend before we were dating... So the other day we're on the phone and she asks me if I'm ok with that (she hadn't gotten around to it and now the friend brought it up again). Well, of course my first reaction was GuhguhguhWHA!? And all the male bluster entailed. It didn't help that they had almost had/tried to have sex once (again, before dating).
I was pissed for her even asking. But, then I changed my mind. I don't know why, maybe because she's sending them to me, too (we're not co-located, so it's a lonely endeavor, this engagement) .. maybe because they're 'tasteful' i.e. no 'money shots'. I would call it swallowing my pride, but I think what really did it was I have no fears whatsoever, no matter how small, of her leaving me or having any feelings for this guy or others. So in the end I don't care.
I just thought it was funny because it caught me so off guard, and here it happened to someone else. No massages or anything, though.