rk, you state you beliefs in the manner of 'should,' as in, 'this situation should be this way, according to me,' and then after you get appropriately strong responses, follow it up with, 'the other/opposite idea that you're expressing is stupid/meaningless/beneath me.' That's when you end up upsetting and annoying people.
Your very intense belief systems are special to you, yet you denigrate others' beliefs. You do this continuously, and even insult people directly.
If you truly desire a non-inflammatory dialogue in response to your threads, you might want to try setting up your opening questions in a more diplomatic and informed way.
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