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That's really useful!
We actually did all that....but here's something we didn't do....
I didn't ask all the sex questions (#10 doesn't even come close to the kind of stuff people should be asking) and luckily it's fine.....But there are questions in those areas I really should have asked and acted on if need be. Judgeing from all the stuff that is common that I don't deal with, it could have really hurt to not ask the hard-core stuff.
Sometimes I think- wow- maybe I should have asked that before I got married. I am relieved that we just so happen to harmonize on most of those issues. But it was luck.......
Getting the do's and dont's on sex preferences I think should be added. (God please be flexible but don't be stupid)
You never know if someone is going to like or hate something that you can't possibly live with on a day to day basis.
God I got lucky. It's like an epiphany today.
(I read a sex column this morning and found out I'm an abnormal little prude and just fine with that, and I always thought I was liberal)
(Question 10 does not adequately cover some major issues that people could have)
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