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Originally Posted by Gannet495
> Nothing. Remaining in a friendship solely in obligation to a vow is idiocy.
then what good is a vow?
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Depends on what the vow is. It is impossible to remain friends because of a vow. If all that holds you together is obligation to a vow, then it is not a real friendship, and therefore your vow is broken anyway.
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yea there's not much of a choice. just wondering how to deal with the feelings and make sure it doesn't happen again. i understand there will be conflicts between gospel-preachers and other doubtful people, but the two people in this story are Christians, and both are expected to abide by a certain high standard of behavior and character. I wouldn't expect a heathen to keep their promises, but I do expect Christians to, since they have been born again.
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If you started talking like this after you were born again, then you may have to resign yourself to this happening again and again with any reasonable friends you still have.