I don't hate you Merc.
Feel better now?
I posted this because I had to tell lj that he's funny today too.
I figured I might as well get all those types of things out at once.
Sorry for messing with your thread Ib. I just sort of figured most of the good advice has already been given and I don't have anything much worthwhile to add. Only that I reckon you're just fairly typical of people your age with regard to figuring out who you are. You'll get it straight sooner or later. If you don't, the world's going to kick your arse. Hmmm...probably the sooner the better in that case.