In time you will come to know many, many more people who are reflections of you... you'll gain friendships, intimacy, confidence, and most importantly, you'll find yourself in those reflections.
I am nowhere near the person I was at your age, and I didn't even have gender identity issues. At age 30, I think I finally figured out who I am and what I'm about.
You're never alone. Sometimes, you just need to reach out.
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