[theotherguy]

We have found that spanking really does not work on our son. He just carries on with life. However, if we take a way a car (he has so many of them, but knows if any one is missing) he will straighten up right away.

We did try spanking a few times, but it just didn't accomplish what we needed. We are not opposed to it. We were both spanked - appropriately I might add - and still love and respect our parents very much. I just think different things work for different kids.

My brother has a couple that must be spanked to get any results. The other two only require some time in the corner to get the desired results.

I think you have to start out with the least harshest of punishments and work your way up (or down) to find what works best with your child.