I find carring a 45 with me and sticking it in the face of any asshole who bothers me very effective.
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Seriously: I actualy don't know.. i'v never been in one of those situations. Is this because I'm a man? I know that I get really pissed off when people are condecending to me. I've come to blows in some situations. Your husband sounds like a nice guy but his pair may need a readjustment if your being treated that way(case A. B. & C.), by anyone; especialy if your hubby is watching it happen.
<i>I'm just trying to understand the world a little better.</i>