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It's good to be afraid, fresh. At 19, you should be afraid. The trick is to translate your fear into appropriate actions: don't get anyone pregnant and you won't have to worry about it until you're ready.
As to when that will be, no one knows. I know a lot of men who thought they didn't want kids at all, but agreed because it was important to their wife, and then it turned out that they were really fascinated with their kids, and loved being a father more than anything in the world.
But I'm not kidding about the safe sex, dude. You don't want to see what custody and child support laws are like in this country for men. Don't ever take the girl's word for it that she's on something.
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