*shrug*
You're probably right. I find it hard to judge users on post one as to whether they're long-termers or potential long-termers.
I really like Jake's #2 option. And if it is the case, wimmen-folk who are reading should respond by asking their men-folk to say what it is they want.
It sure would be nice if we had a checklist. Maybe one of those purity tests. "Hey hon? Could you answer this test, and also rate from 1 to 10 where 1 is the idea makes you want to vomit, and 10 is you've desperately always wanted to do it and, if asked, would do it immediately, perhaps several times in a row if possible."
Then take the test once a year to see if any attitudes have shifted.
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