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Old 03-07-2003, 10:53 AM   #4
perth
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Join Date: Mar 2002
Location: Fort Collins, CO
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I'd rather not play this guessing game with you guys.
oh, please?

seriously, your title says it all. mutual. you should feel free to be open and honest with your s.o. about what deviant things you want to do. but make for damn sure youre open to doing whatever freaky stuff you never knew she liked.

communication is key, and make sure that youre willing to reciprocate.

a good trick is to get her talking about what she wants first (and again, being open to it and willing to try) and then start sharing what you want. its not a dirty trick, because likely theres things shes interested in but is nervous about mentioning.

~james
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