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Old 06-17-2007, 11:09 PM   #8
Flint
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Originally Posted by wolf View Post
Behaving like a shit doesn't reflect well on you, sir.
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Originally Posted by lumberjim View Post
the word 'sir' when used in that way is highly demeaning.
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Originally Posted by lumberjim View Post
....i was just commenting on the way people say "siiiirrrrr" when they really mean 'jerk' sometimes. typically an honorific.....but it's possible to use it as a quasi insult, too. which....i think wolf employed in her post to flint. not to spend a whole lot of time or energy discussing it, but i have seen it done in real life ( usually by a cop or lawyer) and find it interesting. sir.
:::spends a whole lot of time and energy discussing it:::

I think "sir" can also mean "I am respectfully chastising you, for your behavior that I know you know better than to have engaged in, so I leave it for you to beat yourself up over" ...returning the conversation to a respectful tone makes the person being addressed feel guilty for having departed from a respectful tone, I think. That's how I took it, anyway.
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