[lumberjim]

No....I didn;t say nice. I mean....I can tell if the person I'm talking to has ....hmmm....the right combination of intelligence and confidence.....spark? hard to give it a name without it sounding like a dating game......but it's almost like that. not about ME liking them...but about them being a real person....

I don;t know you, fresh. you might be a fabulous guy in real life.....but what you've conveyed here makes me interpret your unspoken words as a recurring negative reaction to your personality. you probably think you're amiable....and may be trying to be. but maybe your not?

i apologize for antagonizing you.....i shouldn't. it's not cool.

here's some free advice as an olive branch:

go into your next interview with the assumption that you're hired if you want the job. turn the table. interview them to see if it's a plce you;d be comfortable working. that always seems to work.