[Aliantha]

fresh, you'll find that quite a number on this forum have had experiences with rape one way or another. While all of us can understand why you'd be concerned about your g/f drinking, it's no reason to go overboard worrying about something that is most probably not going to happen. If you can't be there to take care of her, I agree with what others have posted here. She should have at least a couple of friends with her just in case she does find herself too intoxicated to be responsible for herself.

If she's going to a party full of strangers by herself with no friends, I think there are a lot of other things you should be worried about besides the fact that she might get drunk.