Right. It's far and away better to make your point in such as way as to lead the other person to think it was their idea! That way, they will cooperative instead of resentful for evermore.
That's not "handling people with kid gloves" to me--it's just common sense. Unfortunately, a lot of people (including me, okay?) lack basic common sense and communication skills.
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