I edited my above post.
You do need to talk straight with her.
It is not about feelings, it is about actions.
Women often try to make it about how they feel... like they could not help themselves.... we are accountable for our actions at all times.
That did not come out right... men do it too, but those who are compulsive about "feelings" like jealousy do this often. I have seen it more in women. That is why I put it in those terms.
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