Yeah, I hear you, rkz. The truth is that she has diaries and blogs, and I've told her explicitly I don't want to know anything about what's in there. Everything is contextual. And when a person is speaking to themselves, potentially many years in the past, you can't read that and assume it has any bearing on what your perception of the comment may be.
*sigh*
I don't know. After voicing my opinion here, and getting the feedback, I think I'm going to sit down with her and have a long talk tonight. These past weeks I've been acting very understanding and spent all my energy to talk to "help her work through her concerns". I'm feeling a new subject coming up tonight. Basically, "we need to work through these trust issues".
