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piercehawkeye45 · 03-16-2007, 05:31 PM

I'm having the same problem fresh but a little different. I never had a long relationship so I know how you feel ALL too well. I am usually very shy and have the exact same problems as you. I have a very bipolar confidence when it comes to girls, sometimes I will have all the confidence in the world and sometimes I will have none. It really depends on how I am feeling and if I'm drunk or not (alcohol is confidence in a bottle for me).

I can't give you any suggestions that have worked 100% for me but confidence is always a big part. I would advise going to there to have a good time instead to dance with girls. I have found that when I am there to have a good time I will end up dancing with more girls than if I go there to dance with girls.

03-16-2007, 05:31 PM	#13
piercehawkeye45 Franklin Pierce Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Minnesota Posts: 3,695	I'm having the same problem fresh but a little different. I never had a long relationship so I know how you feel ALL too well. I am usually very shy and have the exact same problems as you. I have a very bipolar confidence when it comes to girls, sometimes I will have all the confidence in the world and sometimes I will have none. It really depends on how I am feeling and if I'm drunk or not (alcohol is confidence in a bottle for me). I can't give you any suggestions that have worked 100% for me but confidence is always a big part. I would advise going to there to have a good time instead to dance with girls. I have found that when I am there to have a good time I will end up dancing with more girls than if I go there to dance with girls.