Wow. Way to take a thread about good things and bright futures and turn it into a freaking one-woman pity party.
Can we get back to what we were talking about before someone selfishly derailed the discussion?
I think a net figure would be helpful in the form on a red or blue bar that only regulars would understand - perhaps via an explanatory PM after the 100th post as a completely random example. The bar could be placed inconspicuously on the main or a sub-page.
When its red, folks can step up as they feel inclined. When its really blue, UT can load up on Scotch and Cohibas.
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