[Aliantha]

It's important to make sure the facility is qualified to care for your child, but I'd go with Clod when she says trust what you feel more. If you don't like the person who is likely to care for your child, then don't leave the child there. For one thing, the carer will probably get the vibe, and so will your kidlette...leading to an unpleasant time at best for all concerned.

I'm very much against child care unless absolutely necessary, so I can understand your point of view in this regard, however, human beings are social animals, and it's important for kids to learn to associate with strangers/new people from a young age also. It's a big part of cognitive developement, and very important during the first few years of life.

I think it's a great idea to give the little one a few hours each week with other kids and new people.