If there's enough lead time, you could say, "Hey I'm new to this area, If you can think of anything you think I should see, maybe you could show me. I'd appreciate it if you'd think about it."
If you don't press for an immediate answer there's no pressure on her. If she comes up with something before the first date/meeting, you're golden. If she doesn't, then after the first date/meeting, it's an excuse to contact her or her to contact you. Think about it.
