I agree with Cloud in regards to doing something that gives you something else to focus on, so no uncomfortable silences or awkward small talk.
Quietish bar with a band is a good thing? so long as you dont have to yell over the music.
The age thing.... I dont pay much attention to age, more attitude and where you are in life. There are some 36 yr olds that act like teenagers and are twats, and there are 24 yr olds that have it together better than most.
The thing that jumps out at me is... youre 24 in school, she's 30+?..thats all I know about her. But you are probably both in very different places in your life (thinking from a girlie perspective).
That said, you havent even been out on your first date, but obviously have been hitting it off well enough to want to take it further....so go for it and live in the moment!!
One of my friends is 35 and has been seeing a 27 year old for 2 years, they are great together because she is young for her age.
I've been in a few *younger* guy relationships and the age hasnt been an issue.
Woo Hoo - have fun and we want *discreet* details!!
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