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Originally Posted by Cloud
It's just a bit frustrating as a mother, because when your child is upset and hurting--you want to be there. Hugs over the phone are not as satisfying.
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Have you read BFW? I haven't but from my understanding it's not a "method" so to speak as much as ideas and information (generally I don't think any method is better than any other, except Bradley of course, that's just fucked up). If you haven't already, it might be a good idea for you to read it, there are generally ideas for caregivers on things to say and do to help mom relax.
Also, reading books by Ina May Gaskin, Henci Goer etc., might make you more comfortable with your daughter's plans.