[Aliantha]

The last breakup I had to deal with took me years to get over although we did have two kids together, so there was a lot of guilt involved as well as all the rest.

All I can say is give yourself time. It really does heal, and when the time is right to move on and try again (and it will surely come), you'll know it. Till them, just be kind to yourself and don't spend too much time wondering what might have been, and realize what is instead. By that I mean, keep it real and remember to value all the positive things in your life.