As DuckNuts stated, you have to allow yourself the time to grieve. Go to a friend that can be there to listen for you - and if not that, and if you feel you cannot deal with it on your own, then find a counselor.
I was dumped in October. I had been dating her for about only 5 months, but had strong feelings for her. While it hurt when I was dumped, it was nowhere as painful as I expected. But at the same time, I can still feel the effects of it once in a while, even now. What makes it all still difficult is the fact that I still love her, though I know it is pointless. I've been dating again, but have not found anyone yet. It is difficult for me to find someone I can connect with.
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