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Originally Posted by DucksNuts
why should the unpartnered person be to blame, unless they tried to *lure* the partnered person away? Even if they did lure the person away, isnt that because they were lurable??
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If the unpartnered knew when they got into it that their paramour was married, then the fault lies with both. Marriage and commitment to a relationship is something to be respected, and how can you expect to GET that respect if you haven't given it? It's also incredibly selfish on the parts of BOTH people.
I have a friend who started the relationship with his current wife when they were both still married to other people. Not surprisingly, they don't trust each other now that they are divorced from their previous spouses and married to each other, and I don't think they ever will, given the nature of their beginnings.
In short, what comes around goes around. Karma is a bitch and if you don't mind a lifetime of pain, be the "other woman" or whatever.