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Originally Posted by BigV
I am interested in learning more about Aikido.
I am seeking personal growth and improved physical agility and strength. I would like something that can include SonofV. He would have about the same preconditions, plus increased self confidence and self defense.
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Any of the martial arts will give you these things. One of the most important things to do will be to visit your local martial arts schools and see which are family/kid friendly, are well organized, and have what you and your son are looking for. Some schools are heavily into competitions; some are not. Some will promote students through the belts or ranks based on time put in more than on mastery of material; others will hold students at a rank until they completely master the level. Some are very intense in their attitude and instruction, and some focus more on social interaction and camaraderie. A school should be a good 'fit' for your situation, personality, and goals. And of course it should be on firm footing as a business, and preferably not require that you sign a long-term contract before your first lesson. (Many schools offer a 'free lesson', but that isn't enough to tell you much.)
I took tae kwon do, as did my kids. One of my sons and my daughter also took wu shu, a Chinese martial art. It was far more intense and demanding than the tae kwon do school we attended, but my kids got a lot out of it. Very time-consuming and painful, but that school turned out amazing athletes. Plus they had fun doing Lion/Dragon Dance performances at the CNE and at Chinese New Year.
It probably doesn't matter much which martial art you start with; people who like it often take classes in more than one style, once they've gotten to a certain level. Check your local yellow pages for schools and check them out. Chances are you'll see something you like.